So we tried to do more date nights, start doing more dates and activities. I thought that was crazy, as my feelings never changed but I thought we were comfortable that’s why she was having these thoughts. She said that we shouldn’t lose the honeymoon phase. Back in January she came to me and told me that the spark she felt was starting to dim. My parents have been together for 30+ years and they have done amazing things together. (Her parents were also divorced and her mom past so she had doubts on how a relationship would work. She was worried that she would lose the spark in our relationship because we didn’t leave each other. There were days were we would do different things but never the full days. My student loans debt has never gave me the opportunity of moving out on my own. I never was in a long relationship or having this type of love with someone. Our relationship was something new to her and I. They made it through college and a little after but they never lived together full time. She previously got out of a 7 year relationship with her ex who was never really there for her. She started to think of the future and how it was scary. I never did that in any of my previous relationships, because I never had someone love me the way that she loved me.īut unfortunately I just found out that she started to have these thoughts about 5 months ago. I even bought a promise ring 6 months in. So when we got home we spent our evenings together on the couch playing games, watching shows, cuddling and enjoying each other company. She worked two jobs, and I worked long hours at my job. It wasn’t because we were afraid of leaving the other person behind or felt guilty for not bringing them, we just loved spending time together. (I know it was pretty fast, but we were already looking at moving out of our parents houses, so plans kinda fell together.) We found a amazing location to rent as it was only 2 minutes from her brothers, so least we had family close. It only took us three months till we decided to move in together. The first date I immediately felt the spark and we just took off. Our relationship started off very strong.
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